Active accompanying the family is scary! One year later, he said, "I feel bad when I see you" and asked for divorce... Is it not good for my husband to get off the scene in the family room?

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According to the Chinese "Sina News", a pregnant mother was scared of her first childbirth. Her husband felt very distressed and offered to enter the childbirth together. Unexpectedly, she finally gave birth to the child, and her relationship with her husband became worse and worse. Not only did her husband not willing to get close to her, she even asked to sleep in a separate room. After asking, she realized that her husband was afraid when he recalled the production process, and even said, "I feel disgusted when I see you, I want to divorce."

{9 After the news was exposed, a large number of discussions among netizens immediately sparked, and many people criticized "I can only say that my husband has problems with his thoughts", "This is an excuse. My husband has also accompanied him, and his relationship is still good now." However, some people bluntly said, "This is true. Some people have little experience in their children, and their psychological resistance to pressure is not good, and accompanying him is different from others", "It is better to find a mother if you let your husband accompany him."

Is it good or bad for my husband to enter the house? I was afraid of blood and stood beside the bed!

There are many netizens on PTT who expressed their opinions on the question of "Whether your husband wants to enter the house to accompany you to the house?" In fact, this matter is really different from the person. It is possible that your husband is very scared, but after entering, he found that he became brave because he was his own child. Some people also said that when he watched a comedy movie, he felt that when he saw the "real" bloody scene in the house, he fell into his chest.

So more netizens suggest that if you really don’t know how much the image you will be affected by the production, you might as well stay by your wife! If your wife hurts too much during the process, you can hold your wife's hand and cheer her up (someone from here said that she should never let her put it in her mouth and bite it) and then remind her not to exert force over her head and forget to breathe.

The husband of a netizen has reincarnated the process of accompanying the family and truly shared: "It's terrifying to accompanying the family, but there is almost no chance to participate in this moment in his life. At that time, the emotion must be more than fear!"

Another question is about this problem, there is a very convincing experience sharing, which made netizens exaggerate. When the netizen gave birth to a baby with his wife, he missed because his child was too small to accommodate him. Since he had already talked with his wife, he had a child. As a child, when the second child was about to be born, he told himself in his heart, "If he doesn't go in to accompany him this time, there will be no chance in the future." At that time, the nurse still asked him if he wanted to go in to accompany him. He was so stupid that he asked his wife, who was already in pain, that he didn't want to go in to accompany her. Of course, his wife had no intention of answering him at that time, so he gritted his teeth and said a little tremblingly that he wanted to go in.

He said that when he went in, he was like the movie TV acting. His wife was put on the stage, and the nurse was preparing for things. Then the doctor walked in. At this time, his wife was screaming. He could only hold her hand and reminded her that the breathing rhythm would be stable (I forgot what Mei Azh's breathing method I had before the birth...) Because his wife was so painful, he felt that his hand was about to be pinched by his wife, but he told him that he would have to endure it no matter how painful it hurts, because his wife hurts even more.

At this time, the doctor Zhang almost jumped onto his wife and pressed down. Soon after, the doctor said he saw the head. He tried hard to look at his wife's face and calm her breathing. He said the focus was here. He was afraid that he would not look at the doctor's side, or even go to the doctor's side, just stay with his wife! Although you can see the corners of your eyes, you just remind yourself not to look!

About 10 minutes, the child came out, and the two hemostatic crusts were packed and cut and then carried to clean. The doctor practiced the cleaning together. At that time, he was overwhelmed and forgot about the process of just producing it. Only his eyes were filled with tears and felt sorry for his wife, and he also liked the arrival of life. Should I go into the factory? It is terrifying to accompany your wife, but there is almost no chance to participate in this moment in your life, and the emotion must be more than fear, and you can still accompany your wife and not let her face it alone.

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