Are you renting a house, buying a house yourself, or living with your parents? Modern people cannot afford to buy a house, but moving away from home at a certain age seems to be the "self-reliance" mark. If an adult man over 35 still lives...
Are you renting a house, buying a house yourself, or living with your parents? Modern people cannot afford to buy a house, but moving away from home at a certain age seems to be the "self-reliance" mark. If an adult man over 35 still lives with his parents, even if he has a job, he will inevitably be labeled as "living his parents".
But in fact, in the generation of rising housing prices, even if young people want to buy a house, they have to rely on their parents' financial support. As Hu Weiliang, chairman of the Taipei City/New Taipei City Old House Renovation and Development Association, said: "It has become a common practice for young people to tie their parents to buy a house." Due to the rising prices in cities, it is difficult for many people to buy houses even if they don’t eat or drink for 20 years. Under the actual conditions, young people prefer to live with their families and don’t bear heavy housing loans!
Recently, a good house network discussed an article about young people not buying a house, which was called "The house price is so expensive that it can't be afforded. Is it wrong for young people to leap their parents?" This sparked a discussion among netizens. Some people believe that whether to live with their parents is mainly based on the premise of being unmarried/married:
"I lived together before marriage. What problem is that you still have to try independence after marriage, otherwise you will never have the home and lifestyle you want."
"If my child still wants to live with me after marriage, I will think he is very poor and affect my life planning and independent space."
On the other hand, some netizens believe that living at home and surviving parents cannot be used as a high-quality number. Living with parents is actually a good behavior:
"Buying a house is not something that modern young people can afford. It is supportive of young people living with their parents, three generations living together to promote family harmony, and their partner can accept and be at peace with their parents. It is really great to live together."
"Now I am still a Cao in the warm room. I like to be in the house and feel very comfortable. "
"Hometown is not like dependent on parents. If you are kind, it is common to be filial, helping to pay basic sales, and water and electricity. Don't talk about young people who rely on their parents for food, drink and accommodation with those with basic abilities."
Young people do not buy a house, so it is definitely related to various social phenomena such as low birth rate, no marriage, late marriage and late childbirth. Travel text author Xue Er once published an article on his face [Is this good if I live with my family in my 30s? 】, the article mentioned that she is 38 years old and still lives with her parents. She was asked whether she had plans to buy a house, and she had also questioned that "girls are too unpromising. Should they find a better salary or buy a house, they prove that they are very harmful."
However, after the practice of life, she now attaches more importance to a life that makes her feel comfortable than caring about the worldly perspective. "Who said that a daughter must get married? A girl must be very bad? Still moving out? I once thought about leaving. Now, without this idea, it is really a blessing to have parents by my side. It is really great to be able to slap next to my mother at the age of 40."
Of course, we can say that it is very happy to enjoy the love of my father and mother without having to worry about three meals and rent at home. But this does not mean that moving out is not good. Children can enjoy greater freedom, and parents can also take off their children and put their focus back on themselves. Life is short and things are unpredictable. If you are arguing with it, you should consider whether to buy a house, cherish and accompany your family, and have plans for the future, you will not be afraid of not being able to live in peace and prosperity in the future.