Lost ≠ Loss ≠ Failure, experts teach you 5 courageous thinking and practice to find direction in the process of change!

You have to be lost first to find the direction In the changing scenery, you have to be lost first to find the direction. The relationship between humans and lost is difficult to say. Although many people agree that half of the fun of life comes fro...


You have to be lost first to find the direction

In the changing scenery, you have to be lost first to find the direction. The relationship between humans and lost is difficult to say. Although many people agree that half of the fun of life comes from "lost", old scripts think that loss is like failure. Lost is mostly regarded as a "bond" involving a certain loss, meaning that I did something wrong, and I was clumsy, making my life worse than before.

But in a completely transformed world, new changes appear every day, and familiar things themselves are changing, and being lost is part of the new script. We have lost our roots and no support in this world, no direction, and are constantly wandering. No matter what kind of guide you are holding, it has long been invalid. What's more, no matter you, me or anyone else, you will not choose this new and modified landscape. That's the change.

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Once you open up your changing thinking, the courage to get lost will become an advantage. It is also a secret weapon and a wisdom that will make you happy not only accept loss, but also actively find strange things and make your designs more comfortable. Being brave enough to get lost does not mean lack of direction or being stupid, it is just that old scripts are working again. On the contrary, being brave enough to get lost means that you can feel completely at ease when facing things that you don’t understand (or never understand).

When you are lost, can you walk out of your own path, or will you be knocked down by your own feet?

At the end of the day, how do you react to this superpowered terminal: When you are lost, do you feel comfortable or worried? Curious or anxious? Can you walk your own path or be knocked down by your own feet?

My own lost experience can be divided into several aspects: after losing two things, I created a new relationship; after losing direction, I tried several different professional careers and thus found my own way; after losing hope, I discovered the meaning, and the adventure from Bucovina to Bolivia and then to Bali (and unlucky encounters), each of the above experiences helped me re-grind the lenses to see the changes. Through these experiences, I realized that courage to be lost is a gift. If you have never lost your way, you will never find your own path, and your new script will not be able to fully shine.

Fortunately, in the world where there are more and more changes, you will often be lost. Everyone is the same, and it is up to you to know: because old scripts are incomplete and no longer meet the needs or purposes. When you start to change thinking, you will find the best way to get lost, learn to accept discomfort, find familiarity in strange things, see what you are really looking for, and finally write all of this into your new script.

作者:艾波.瑞妮
出版社:遠流
出版日期:2022/02/24



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